ʻO ke ola me ka ʻole orgasm: 3 Wahine e kaʻana like i kā lākou mau moʻolelo

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No ka wehewehe ʻana i kahi hemahema, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea e hoʻopiha ai; e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka wahine anorgasmia, mua ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka orgasm. Kūleʻa mākou e kamaʻilio a puni ia, hāʻawi iā ia i nā inoa inoa maikaʻi: "ka Big O," "ka hopena nui." ʻAʻole paha he mea kupanaha, ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo hoʻokahi, ʻae ʻia i ke ao holoʻokoʻa. ʻO ka hopena ka hopena o ka hoʻonāukiuki i ka moekolohe, akā ʻaʻole mau. Ke nānā aku nei nā kauka lapaʻau i nā hopena o ke kino physiological-ke kahe o ke koko i nā genital, ka ʻāʻī ʻana o ka ʻiʻo a me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana-ʻo ke kumu no ka orgasm, aʻo ka poʻe psychologists e nānā i nā loli naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo e pili pū ana me ia, e like me ka wikiwiki o ka kemika uku, dopamine, i. ka lolo. I ka wā e hiki mai ai, ʻo ke ala wale nō e haʻi maopopo ai ua loaʻa kahi wahine i ka orgasm inā ʻo ia e haʻi iā ʻoe iho.

"E ʻike ʻoe i ka wā e hiki mai ai," ʻo nā wahine i ʻike i ka orgasm me ka ʻike ʻole i ka poʻe i ʻike ʻole, ke ala i ʻōlelo ʻia ai mākou e kali no kā mākou mau manawa mua-me he mea lā he mau hanana e hiki mai ana iā mākou. e loaʻa, e like me kekahi makana i hāʻawi manawaleʻa ʻia. Akā, pehea inā ʻaʻole hele mai ka orgasm ke makemake mākou iā-a i ʻole?

ʻO Kayla, 25, i kahi wā lōʻihi, pili i ka moekolohe i kāhea ʻo ia iā "considerate and support." ʻAʻole ʻo ia i kiʻekiʻe - ʻo ia wale nō a i ʻole me kahi hoa. "Ma ka noʻonoʻo, ua hāmama nui wau e pili ana i ka moekolohe," haʻi ʻo ia iā mākou. "ʻIke pinepine wau e pili ana i ia mea a makemake wau e hoʻāʻo, a hoʻomaʻamaʻa wau mai ka wā ʻōpio, no laila ʻaʻohe hoʻomāinoino ma laila ... hōʻole wau e manaʻo he mea hewa iaʻu wale nō ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino paha-makemake wau e lanakila ka hui pū ʻia o nā mea ʻelua. "

ʻO Kayla kekahi o ka 10 a hiki i ka 15 pakeneka o nā wahine me ka anorgasmia, a i ʻole ka hiki ʻole ke hōʻea i ka orgasm ma hope o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka moe kolohe - ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā mākou hoʻokahi wehewehe o ka "kūpono," a i ʻole ka ʻike maopopo ʻana i ke kumu o ka anorgasmia. (ʻAʻole maopopo mākou i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka pololei o kēlā helu helu 10 a 15 pakeneka.) "ʻAʻole maopopo mākou inā he kumu lāʻau no ka anorgasmia," wehewehe ʻo Vanessa Marin, ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa wahine ma San-Francisco. . "E ʻōlelo paha wau no 90 a 95 paha ka pākēneka o nā wahine e ʻike nei iā ia, no ka mea he hewa ko lākou ʻike a i ʻole ka nele o ka ʻike, hilahila moekolohe, ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻāʻo maoli i kēlā mea, a aia paha ka hopohopo-nui kēlā." [No ka moʻolelo piha, e poʻo i Ref Ref2929!]

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