ʻO Keira Knightley wale nō i kākau i kahi mana, moho moʻolelo moho e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hānau ʻana

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Mahalo nui i ka pāpili kaiapili, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā māmā e pili ana i ka hopena o ka hānau ʻana, kaʻana like ʻana i nā kiʻi i hoʻoponopono ʻole ʻia e like me ke kino o ka wahine maoli ma hope o ka hāpai ʻana. (Hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa a Chrissy Teigen i kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i kāna huki butthole i ka wā hānau? Yep.) Akā i loko o kahi moʻolelo hou, ua lawe ʻo Keira Knightley i kahi ʻanuʻu me kahi kiʻi maoli a me nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi e like me ka hānau ʻana o kāna kaikamahine. Edie, i Mei 2015. (PS ʻAe, He mea maʻamau ka nānā ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana ma hope o ka hānau ʻana)

ʻO ka moʻolelo ikaika a Knightley, he leka wehe i kāna kaikamahine, i kapa ʻia ʻo "The Weaker Sex," mai ka puke hou i kapa ʻia. ʻAʻole komo nā wahine wahine i ka poni (a me nā moe ʻē aʻe). Ma kahi ʻāpana i paʻi ʻia e Refinery29, maopopo ʻaʻole ʻo ia e paʻa i kekahi mea i ka wā e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i nā wahine i kapa ʻia he nāwaliwali. ʻO ka hihia: hānau keiki.

"Hoʻokaʻawale koʻu lua," kākau ʻo Knightley i ka laina mua loa. "Ua puka mai ʻoe me ka hāmama o kou mau maka. ʻO nā lima i luna i ka lewa. ʻO ka walaʻau ʻana. Hoʻokomo lākou iā ʻoe i luna oʻu, ua uhi ʻia i ke koko, vernix, ʻaʻohe ʻano o kou poʻo mai ke ala hānau." A ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kū ma laila. Ke hoʻomau nei ka essay e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole o ka ʻike holoʻokoʻa, e kikoʻī ana i ke koko e kahe ana i kāna "ʻūhā, hoki, a me cellulite," ʻoiai e hōʻike iā ia iho i nā kauka kāne kāne i loko o ka lumi. ʻO kāna hōʻike holoʻokoʻa o ka hānau ʻana he mea liʻiliʻi ~ nani mana~ a ʻoi aku koko maoli-a hōʻoluʻolu ia.

ʻIke maoli ʻo Knightley i ka hānai ʻana. "Hoʻopili koke ʻoe i koʻu umauma, pōloli, hoʻomanaʻo wau i ka ʻeha," kākau ʻo ia. "Piki paʻa ka waha a puni kuʻu piko, omo māmā a hū i waho." (Related: Ke hakaka nei kēia Māmā ma hope o kona hilahila ʻana no ka hānai ʻana ma kona loko wai kūloko)

Ke hoʻomau nei ʻo Knightley i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ʻo ka hānau ʻana-a ʻo ka makuahine a me ka wahine ma ke ʻano ākea-he huhū a kino, piha i nā pilikia a me ka ʻeha, a hōʻike i ka mana weliweli maoli o nā kino wahine. He kahua hakakā maoli kēia: "Hoʻomaopopo wau i ke kiki, ka luaʻi, ke koko, nā humuhumu. Hoʻomaopopo wau i koʻu kahua kaua. ʻO kou kahua kaua a me kou ola e pulsating ana. Ke ola nei," kākau ʻo ia. "A ʻo wau ka wahine nāwaliwali? ʻO ʻoe?"

Inā kānalua kekahi i ka mana o ke kino wahine, ʻōlelo ʻo ia, mai nānā ʻoe ma mua o ka makuahine. (Pili: Loaʻa ʻo Kelly Rowland e pili ana iā Diastasis Recti ma hope o ka hānau ʻana)

ʻO ka mea minamina wale nō e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana, ʻo ia ka manaʻo pinepine o ke kaiāulu e hoʻihoʻi koke i nā makuahine. Kāhea ʻo Knightley iā B.S. Ua hānau ʻo ia i ka lā ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o Kate Middleton i ke Kamāliʻiwahine Charlotte a haʻi ʻo ia i ka weliweli i ke kūlana maʻamau a Middleton a me nā wahine he nui i paʻa. "Hūnā. Hūnā i ko mākou ʻeha, ka māhele ʻana o ko mākou mau kino, ke kahe ʻana o ko mākou umauma, ka huhū o kā mākou mau hormones," kākau ʻo ia. "E nana nani. E nana i ka nani, mai hoike aku i kou kahua kaua, e Kate. Ehiku hora ma hope o kou paio ana me ke ola a me ka make, ehiku hora ma hope o ka naha ana o kou kino, a puka mai ke ola koko, uwauwa. Mai hoike mai. Mai E haʻi. Kū i laila me kāu kaikamahine a kī ʻia e kekahi pūʻulu kiʻi kāne. " (Malia paha ʻo ia kekahi kumu e huki ai ʻo Kate Middleton i ka manaʻo o ke kaumaha postpartum.)

Me nā wahine ʻē aʻe e like me Knightley e ʻōlelo nei me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ikaika, ʻo ia maʻamau, mahalo, hoʻomaka e loli.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i ka essay holoʻokoʻa i ʻAʻole ʻaʻahu nā wahine i ka ʻulaʻula (a me nā wahaheʻe ʻē aʻe).

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