Pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia kaohi Impulse i nā keiki a me nā mākua

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• Nā ʻōuli
• Nā ʻōuli i ka poʻe mākua
• Nā ʻōuli i nā keiki
• Nā kūlana pili
• Nā kūlana pili ʻē aʻe
• Pehea e kū ai
• Kōkua i kāu keiki e kū aʻe
• ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua
• Nā hoʻoponopono
• Ka wā e ʻike ai i ke kauka
• Ke laina lalo

ʻO nā pilikia kaohi Impulse e pili ana i ka paʻakikī o kekahi poʻe i ka hoʻokū ʻana iā lākou iho mai ka hana ʻana i kekahi ʻano. ʻO nā laʻana maʻamau e pili pū me:

• piliwaiwai
• ʻaihue
• hana ʻino i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe

Pili paha ka nele o ka impulse control me kekahi mau maʻi neurological, e like me ka deficit hyperactivity maʻi (ADHD).

Pili paha ia i kahi hui intersecting o nā kūlana i ʻike ʻia ʻo nā impulse control disorders (ICDs).

Hiki i nā ʻano maʻi ke loaʻa ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole i ka maikaʻi o ke ola, akā aia nā hoʻolālā a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau e hiki ke kōkua.

Nā ʻōuli

Hiki ke hoʻololi i nā pilikia kaohi impulse mai kēlā me kēia kanaka, akā ʻo kahi kumuhana maʻamau ka manaʻo ʻia o nā impulses he paʻakikī a paʻakikī e kaohi.

Hoʻomaka ka hapa nui o nā ʻōuli i ka wā ʻōpio, akā hiki nō hoʻi i nā ICD ʻole e hōʻike a hiki i ka wā makua.

ʻO kekahi o nā ʻōuli maʻamau e ʻike ʻia i nā makahiki āpau:

• wahahee
• ʻaihue, a i ʻole kleptomania
• ana i ka waiwai
• hōʻike i ka huhū pahū
• loaʻa ka huhū koke, nā kino a me nā waha
• hōʻino i nā kānaka a me nā holoholona ʻē aʻe
• ka huki ʻana i nā lauoho ponoʻī o kekahi, nā maka, a me nā lika, a i ʻole trichotillomania
• ʻai compulsively a overeating paha

Nā ʻōuli i ka poʻe mākua

Hiki i nā mākua me nā ʻano hoʻomalu impulse ke ʻano e like me:

• piliwaiwai kaohi ʻole ʻia
• hoʻoikaika koi
• hoʻā ʻana i ke ahi me ka ʻino, a i ʻole pyromania
• hōʻalo pūnaewele a i ʻole hoʻohana i waho o ka mana
• moekolohe

Nā ʻōuli i nā keiki

ʻO nā keiki me nā pilikia kaohi impulse e loaʻa hou paha nā pilikia ma ke kula, ma ka pilikanaka a me ka ʻepekema.

Hiki paha iā lākou ke kiʻekiʻe i ka makaʻu i ka huhū o ka lumi papa, ʻaʻole e hoʻokō ʻia kā lākou hana kula, a me ka hakakā me kā lākou mau hoa.

Nā kūlana pili

ʻOiai ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia ke kumu kikoʻī o nā ICD, ua manaʻo ʻia e pili ana nā pilikia kaohi impulse i nā loli kemika i ka ʻaoʻao mua o ka lolo. Pili kēia mau hoʻololi i ka dopamine.

ʻIke ʻia ka lobe mua no ka kaohi ʻana i nā impulses. Inā loaʻa nā hoʻololi i loko o ia mea, pilikia paha ʻoe i nā pilikia kaohi impulse.

Hiki paha i nā ICD ke pili i kahi hui o ka mea a ka Diagnostic a me ka Statistic Statistic of Mental Disorder (DSM-5) i kāhea ai i ka disruptive, impulse-control, a me nā ʻano alakaʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana o kēia mau maʻi:

• ʻAno hoʻokele. Hōʻike ka poʻe me kēia maʻi i ka huhū a me ka huhū i hiki ke hoʻoweliweli i kekahi poʻe, nā holoholona, ​​a me nā waiwai.
• ʻO ka maʻi pōā intermittent. Hoʻokumu kēia maʻi i nā huhū huhū a me ka huhū ma ka home, kula, a me ka hana.
• ʻO ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻēʻē (ODD). E huhū a makaʻu ʻole paha kekahi kanaka me ka ODD, ʻoiai ke hōʻike nei i nā hana hoʻopaʻi.

Nā kūlana pili ʻē aʻe

E ʻike ʻia paha nā pilikia kaohi Impulse ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā kūlana aʻe:

• ka maʻi hyperactivity deficit attention (ADHD)
• bipolar kāna hana
• maʻi kūpilikiʻi obsessive (OCD)
• ʻO ka maʻi ʻo Parkinson a me nā ʻano neʻe ʻē aʻe
• hōʻino lāʻau
• Tourette maʻi pale

ʻOi aku ka koʻikoʻi o nā ICD i nā kāne. ʻO nā kumu ʻē aʻe e pili pū me:

• he moolelo o ka hana ino
• maikaʻi ʻole ka mālama ʻana mai nā mākua i ka wā kamaliʻi
• makua me nā pilikia hoʻohana pono ʻole i ka lāʻau

Pehea e kū ai

ʻOiai he koʻikoʻi ka mālama ʻana i ka mālama ʻana i nā pilikia kaohi impulse, aia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūleʻa i kēia mau pilikia.

Kōkua i kāu keiki e kū aʻe

Inā he makua ʻoe me kahi keiki e hakakā nei me ka kaohi impulse, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i nā pilikia a kāu keiki a pehea e kōkua ai. ʻO ke kuhikuhi i kahi psychotherapist i hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia e hana me nā keiki e kūpono paha kekahi.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e:

• hoʻohālikelike i nā hana olakino a hoʻonohonoho i kahi laʻana maikaʻi
• kau palena ana a pili iā lākou
• ke hoʻokumu nei i kahi hana maʻamau i ʻike ai kāu keiki i ka mea e manaʻo ai
• ke hōʻoia nei e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou ke hōʻike lākou i kahi ʻano maikaʻi

ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua

Hiki i nā mākua me nā pilikia kaohi impulse ke paʻakikī i ka kaohi ʻana i kā lākou mau ʻano i ka wela o ka manawa. Ma hope, ʻike paha lākou i ka lawehala a hilahila loa. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i kahi pōʻaiapuni o ka huhū iā haʻi.

He mea nui e kamaʻilio me kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi ai e pili ana i kāu hakakā a me ka kaohi impulse.

Loaʻa i kahi puka e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hana ma waena o kāu mau ʻano ʻoiai ke hōʻemi nei i ka makaʻu o ke kaumaha, ka huhū, a me ka huhū.

Nā hoʻoponopono

ʻO ka Therapy kahi lapaʻau waena no nā ICD a me ka kaohi impulse e pili ana i nā ʻano kumu ʻē aʻe. Pākuʻi ʻia paha nā laʻana:

• hui therapy no nā mākua
• pāʻani i ka therapy no nā keiki
• kēlā me kēia psychotherapy i ke ʻano o ka cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) a i ʻole kekahi ʻano o ke kūkā kamaʻilio
• ʻohana hoʻōla a i ʻole hoʻomeamea kāne

Kau kauka paha i ke kauka antidepressants a i ʻole ke ʻano stabilizers e kōkua i ke kaulike ʻana i nā kemika i kou lolo.

Nui a hewahewa nā koho, a he lōʻihi paha ka manawa e hoʻoholo ai i nā lāʻau a me nā ʻano hana e pono ai nāu.

ʻO ka mālama ʻana i nā olakino noʻonoʻo a i ʻole nā ​​hanana neurological i hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i nā ʻōuli o ke kaohi impulse maikaʻi ʻole.

Inā loaʻa ʻoe i ka maʻi ʻo Parkinson, hāʻawi paha kāu kauka i mea e hoʻāʻo ai e ʻike i kēia ʻano hana, inā ulu lākou.

Ka wā e ʻike ai i ke kauka

He mea nui e kāhea koke aku i kāu kauka inā manaʻo ʻoe he hōʻike kāu a kāu keiki paha i nā pilikia o ka kaohi impulse. ʻO ka ʻimi koke i ke kōkua, ʻo ka hopena paha ka maikaʻi.

Pono kahi loiloi koke no nā pilikia me ke kula, ka hana, a i ʻole ke kānāwai e kū mai ka hana ʻana i nā impulses.

Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kaohi i kāu mau ʻano impulsive, a ke hoʻopilikia maikaʻi nei lākou i kou ola a me nā pilina, e kiʻi i ke kōkua.

Kāhea koke i ke kauka o kāu keiki inā lākou e hōʻino a hana kolohe paha i ka poʻe a i ʻole nā ​​holoholona.

I mea e loiloi ai i nā pilikia kaohi o ka impulse, e nīnau ana kāu kauka e pili ana i kāu a i ʻole nā ​​hōʻailona o kāu keiki, a me ka nui a me ka pinepine o ka huhū.

Paipai paha lākou i kahi loiloi psychological e hoʻoholo i nā ʻano olakino noʻonoʻo e hiki ai ke hāʻawi i ka hana.

Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi maʻi neurological e kū nei, e kāhea i kāu kauka inā ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona hou a i ʻole ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻole i ka kaohi impulse. Pono paha lākou e hoʻoponopono i kāu hoʻolālā lapaʻau o kēia manawa.

Ke laina lalo

He paʻakikī loa nā pilikia kaohi impulse a hiki i ka paʻakikī ke pale a mālama.

Eia nō naʻe, ka hana pū ʻana me kāu kauka a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hōʻailona a me nā mea pōpilikia i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka lāʻau kūpono e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kou ola.

Ma muli o ka hoʻomohala ʻana o nā ICD i ka wā kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kali e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka.

Hiki ke paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka nele o ka kaohi impulse, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kōkua he mea maikaʻi ia e hōʻemi ai i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole ma ke kula, ka hana, a me nā pilina.