Hiki i kāna ʻakaʻaka ke hoʻoholo inā he hoa kāne ʻo ia
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E nā keikikāne maikaʻi ʻole, e makaʻala - manaʻo nā wahine he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kāne e ʻakaʻaka i ka ʻakaʻaka maikaʻi no ka pilina lōʻihi ma mua o ka poʻe i hānau, kahi noiʻi hou ma Hoʻonaʻauao Kūlohelohe nā hōʻike.
No laila he aha ka mea e pili ana i kēlā minoʻaka e hoʻopaʻa iā mākou i kekahi ma ke ʻano he keikikāne koke? Ua manaʻo nā mea noiʻi mai ʻEulopa a me ʻAsia i nā wahine i nā kāne ma ke ʻano he mea aloha kāne a i ʻole kahi lou-up-āpau āpau e pili wale ana i ka helehelena. Ua ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli a ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi o nā kāne i hoʻomālamalama i kā lākou mau keʻokeʻo momi ma mua o ka poʻe me nā hiʻohiʻona kūʻokoʻa, ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he kāne wale nō a me ke kanaka makua, hoʻopaʻa iā lākou i ke ʻano maʻamau.
Hāʻule kēia i ka laina me nā manaʻo paʻa i hoʻokumu ʻia e ʻimi mākou i nā kāne me nā genes maikaʻi (heluhelu: nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi) ke ʻimi nei i kahi lou-up maʻamau, no ka mea ua mākaukau ka lolo no ka hana hou. (Inā ʻoe i loko o kēia moku, nānā i ka mea aʻu i aʻo ai mai 10 mau makahiki o ke Kū hoʻokahi Pō.)
Akā ʻoiai ʻo ka mea pohihihi a pau o ke kāne kāne paha e ʻoluʻolu no ka pō hoʻokahi a i ʻole kekahi mau lā, ua hōʻike nā wahine i ka noiʻi hou e makemake lākou i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i ko lākou nani lōʻihi (ʻoiai ʻaʻole i ʻeha ka helehelena nani). Ua hōʻike mau ka poʻe grinning i kēia palekana, ka mea a nā psychologists evolution e ʻōlelo nei he mea maikaʻi no ka mea hōʻike ia he kūpono e hānai i ʻohana me ʻoe.
No laila, i ka manawa aʻe e hopu ʻoe i ka minoʻaka mai kēlā ʻaoʻao o ka pā, mai kākau koke iā ia ma ke ʻano he Mr. Nice Guy ʻoluʻolu. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea āu e ʻimi nei! (Ke hoʻololi nei anei ʻoe iā wai ʻoe?)