ʻO ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu

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• ʻO nā cons o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu
• ʻO nā cons o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu
  
• ʻO nā pōmaikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu
• Nā pōmaikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu
  
• Nā ʻanuʻu aʻe
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ʻAneʻane like ka loaʻa ʻana o ʻekolu mau keiki me he mea lā kau lā i kēia mau lā. Nui nā makuahine aʻu i ʻike ua haʻi mai iaʻu ua manaʻo lākou e hoʻohui i ke kolu o nā keiki i ko lākou mau ʻohana i hoʻonāukiuki i nā hopena mai kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Ke loaʻa nei kahi keiki ʻekolu, hopohopo ka hapa nui o lākou, hoʻokahi wale nō kaʻi o ke kaʻawale ʻana mai ka hui ʻana me ka ʻohana Duggar.

Akā ke ʻike ʻoe i kēlā ʻeha e hoʻopaʻa i kahi pēpē hou i kou mau lima, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā wale. Pono ʻoe e ʻimi i kou mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu. No laila inā ʻoe i ka pā e pili ana i ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi kolu o ka hoʻohui i kou ʻohana, eia kekahi mau mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole e noʻonoʻo ai ma mua o kāu hoʻoholo ʻana.

ʻO nā cons o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu

Ma mua o ke luʻu ʻana i loko, e hoʻomaka wau i ka ʻōlelo ʻana he ʻehā kaʻu mau keiki. No laila, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻoholo mua mākou e loaʻa i kahi pēpē ʻekolu. Akā ua ikaika wau e loaʻa iā mākou kahi keiki ʻekolu. No mākou, ʻaʻole ia he nīnau maoli. Akā he nui nō a mākou e noʻonoʻo ai. E alo iā ia, ke hoʻohui ʻoe i kēlā pēpē ʻekolu ma ke ʻano he ʻohana o ka ʻohana duo-makua, e ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu mau helu. A he hana nui kēlā.

ʻO nā cons o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu

1. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā mākua.
2. Inā ʻoe mai kahi ʻohana liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole paha he mea maʻamau nā keiki ʻekolu āu.
3. ʻEkolu mau keiki paha ka helu kaumaha loa e loaʻa, hōʻike ʻia nā ana noiʻi.

1. E nui aku ka nui o lākou ma mua ou. ʻO kekahi o kaʻu mau makaʻu nui loa i ka hoʻohui ʻana i ke keiki ʻekolu i ko mākou ʻohana, ʻo ia hoʻi ma muli o kā mākou ʻelua mua ma lalo o ka makahiki 5, ʻoi aku ka nui o kaʻu mau keiki ma mua o nā lima. He naʻaupō loa ia, akā inā he makuahine ʻoe me nā keiki liʻiliʻi, ʻo nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka holo ʻana i ka hale kūʻai i lilo i hakakā.

2. ʻAʻole paha ʻekolu mau keiki e manaʻo he "maʻamau" iā ʻoe. Inā hele mai ʻoe mai kahi ʻohana liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia he ʻekolu a kamaʻāina paha kāu keiki ʻekolu. ʻEkolu ka pīhoihoi o nā keiki ʻekolu, no laila e loiloi i kāu pae hoʻomanawanui ponoʻī no nā juggling āpau e hiki ʻole ke hōʻea me ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi pēpē ʻekolu.

3. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki he ʻekolu ka mea koʻikoʻi loa. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi anaina “I kēia lā Hōʻike” i ka loaʻa ʻana o ʻekolu mau keiki ka helu nui loa o nā pilikia no nā mākua. ʻO kēia kahi nūhou maikaʻi ʻole inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana i ka hōʻoki ʻana i ʻekolu mau keiki. Akā he lono maikaʻi inā e hoʻolālā ana ʻoe i ka nui o kāu poʻe keiki. Wahi a ka noiʻi, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā keiki ma ke ʻano kaulike ʻole. Kāhea wau i kēia ka hopena "hāʻawi".

ʻO nā pōmaikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu

Nā pōmaikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu

1. E hiki nō iā ʻoe ke hele maʻalahi ma ke ʻohana he ʻelima.
2. E loaʻa i kāu mau keiki he kaikaina ma mua o hoʻokahi.
3. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻololi ʻana o ke keiki ʻekolu ma mua o kou manaʻo.

1. Kū paʻa mau kahi ʻohana o ʻelima. Kūkulu ʻia ka honua no ʻohana o ʻehā. ʻO nā hale ʻaina, ka hapa nui o nā kaʻa, a me nā hoʻokūkū hāʻawi manuahi manuahi āu e komo ai akā ʻaʻole lanakila maoli ua hoʻolālā ʻia no ʻehā mau kānaka. Akā hiki iaʻu ke haʻi iā ʻoe mai ka ʻike pilikino me kahi keiki ʻekolu, hāʻule mau ʻoe i ka pae "ʻohana" ʻohana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i ʻekolu mau noho kaʻa i ka hapanui o nā kaʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaomi i loko o kēlā mau hale ʻaina, a ʻaʻole ʻoe e lanakila i kēlā hoʻomaha.

Ke laina lalo: Inā he ʻohana kou makemake e hele, ʻaʻole ke lohi o kāu keiki ʻekolu.

2. ʻO ka nui o nā kaikaina he nui aku nā koho no kāu poʻe keiki. "Makemake au i ʻekolu ma kahi o ʻelua," wehewehe ʻo Kelly Burch, makuahine o hoʻokahi. "ʻO wau kekahi o nā mea ʻehā, a waiwai nui wau i nā pilina ʻekolu aʻu me kēlā me kēia mau kaikaina."

3. ʻEkolu mau keiki ke hoʻololi maʻalahi loa āu e hana ai. ʻAʻole wau e hoʻohiki ma aneʻi. Akā makemake wau e lilo i leo no ke kumu i ke kai o ka poʻe nāna e aʻo aku iā ʻoe ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ke keiki ʻekolu ke lilo i mea ʻoʻoleʻa loa āu e alo ai.ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kā mākou pēpē ʻekolu ka hoʻololi maʻalahi loa naʻu ma ke ʻano makuahine.
ʻO ka hele ʻana mai zero a i hoʻokahi kahi mea hoʻololi ola, ke hele nei mai hoʻokahi a ʻelua i manaʻo he aneane hiki ʻole, a ʻo ka ʻehā i hoʻoluliluli iaʻu i kahi ala ke hoʻi hou nei wau mai (akā mahalo nui loa). Akā, ua like kēlā pēpē ʻekolu me he makani lā. Kūpono ʻo ia a hele mākou me ke kahe. ʻIke wau i kou wā e hele aku ai i ke kolu o ka pēpē, manaʻo nui ʻoe i kou hiki a me nā palena ma ke ʻano he makua. He mea maʻalahi ia e hoʻomaʻa i ke ola me kahi hānau hou.

Nā ʻanuʻu aʻe

ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi a me nā papa inoa maikaʻi ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e loaʻa ai kahi pane definitive i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu. I ka hopena o ka lā, pono ʻoe e hōʻiliʻili i kāu papa inoa a kamaʻilio me nā makuahine ʻē aʻe i hoʻoholo like. E hoʻomanaʻo e noʻonoʻo pono iā ʻoe iho inā hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i ka nui o nā keiki. E hele me nā mea a kou puʻuwai e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe e hana. Ma kēlā a me kēia ʻaoʻao, nou kou ʻohana. ʻO ia ka "pro" ʻoi loa i hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo.

Q:

He aha kāu e hana ai e hoʻomākaukau inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ʻekolu?

Hoʻomanawanui inoa ʻole

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Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana i ka hāpai ʻana, e hana i kahi manawa me kāu kauka a i ʻole ka palekeiki e kūkākūkā i kāu olakino prepregnancy. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kou olakino, nā lāʻau lapaʻau, nā papaʻai, a me nā mea āpau e hiki ke kōkua i ka hōʻoia ʻana i ke olakino maikaʻi i loko o nā mahina mua o ka ulu ʻana o ka fetal i ka hāpai ʻana. E hoʻomanaʻo, inā he wahine ʻoe o ka wā hānau keiki, pono ʻoe i 400 micrograms o ka waikawa folic i kēlā me kēia lā ma mua o kou hāpai ʻana, e kōkua ai i ka pale ʻana i nā kīnā neural tube.

ʻO Kimberly Dishman, ʻo nā pane ʻo WHNP e hōʻike i nā manaʻo o kā mākou kauka loea. Hoʻomaopopo ʻike ʻike ʻole ʻia nā ʻike āpau a pono ʻole e noʻonoʻo ʻia he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo olakino.