ʻO nā mea paʻakikī loa e pili ana i ka neʻe ʻana i kahi hui

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• ʻOihana Dish
• Kālā kālā
• Nā Manawa Pilikino
• Pāʻoihana lumi ʻauʻau
• Manawa TV
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Ma muli o ka maʻalahi o ka rom-coms e nānā, e like me kahi noiʻi hou i hana ʻia e UGallery, 83 pakeneka o nā wahine e ʻōlelo nei he paʻakikī loa ka neʻe ʻana i loko. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e mākaukau, hiki i nā mea liʻiliʻi e hele mai me ka pae hou o ka pili ke puhi maʻalahi i ka pilina maikaʻi loa. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pehea e kaʻana like ai i ka hana ʻīlio, he aha ka mea e hana ʻia inā ʻoe e kaʻana like i ka manawa ʻohana ma luna o nā lā nui. "ʻO kēia ke kumu nui o ka pale ʻana i nā pilikia maʻamau ma mua o kou kau ʻana i ka wāwae ma luna o kahi paepae like," wahi a Wendy Walsh, Ph.D., ka loea pili, a me ka mea kākau o ʻO ka 30-Day Love Detox.

Ma ʻaneʻi, ʻo nā pilikia ʻelima kiʻekiʻe i loaʻa i nā kāne i ka wā e moe ai, a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo loea a Walsh e pili ana i ka hana ʻana i kēlā me kēia.

ʻOihana Dish

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Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi hou ʻoiai ʻo nā kāne i koho e noho pū me nā wahine e hana mau i ka hapa nui o nā hana hale, e like me 90 pakeneka o nā hana-ʻoiai inā e hana ana nā hoa ʻelua. Inā ʻaʻole ia ʻo A-OK me ʻoe (a no ke aha ia?), Manaʻo ʻo Walsh e kūkā kamaʻilio ma mua o kou neʻe pū ʻana e pili ana i ka mea e hana ana i ka mea. Ua ʻike mākou ʻaʻole makemake maoli ka hele ʻana mai me ka papa hana hana, akā ʻaʻole hoʻi e holoi i nā kīʻaha i ke aumoe me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana e hoʻopaʻa iā ia me kona uluna.

Kālā kālā

I ka wā e pili ana i ke kālā, pono ʻoe e ʻae i ka hoʻokaʻawale iki ʻana i nā mea 50/50 a i ʻole e uku hou aʻe iā ia. "Makemake ka nui o nā kāne e like me ka mea hoʻolako," wehewehe ʻo Walsh. ʻAʻole paha he "maikaʻi" ia i ka wā mua, akā kuhikuhi ʻo ia ʻaʻole like kāu pilina me kāu ipo me kahi hoa noho, no laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e mālama i ka neʻe ʻana me ia e like me ke koho ʻana i kahi mea hoʻolimalima ma Craigslist. Eia hou, pono ʻoe e pale iā ʻoe iho i ke kālā. ʻOiai ʻaʻole like ka noho ʻana me ka male ʻana, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Walsh, ʻo ka haʻihaʻi ʻana ua like ia me ka hemo ʻana-koe wale nō me ka ʻole o nā pale kānāwai. ʻO kahi hana mua maikaʻi e mālama i kāu moʻokāki pilikino i kou inoa no laila ʻaʻole pilikia kāu mālama kālā a me kāu mōʻaukala inā hele hema nā mea.

Akā ʻo ka mea ʻoi loa i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, e like me Walsh, he ʻaelike i kākau ʻia e pili ana i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o nā pila. Kākoʻo aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe e kamaʻāina me nā kānāwai Kānāwai a i ʻole nā ​​Kānāwai Mīkini maʻamau i kou mokuʻāina.

Nā Manawa Pilikino

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Hoʻonohonoho moe kolohe hiki e lilo i mea nani! "Ke manaʻo nei ka poʻe e neʻe i loko e like me ka launa pū ʻana akā me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka hopena o ka noho ʻana," wehewehe ʻo Walsh. "ʻAʻole ia manaʻo e hāʻule ana ʻoe i ke aloha me kēlā kanaka akā ke neʻe nei ʻoe i kahi pae hohonu a mālie o ke aloha." ʻO kēia wale nō ka mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻimi i nā ala e hoʻopili kino ai ma mua o ka manaʻo e hiki koke mai.

Eia hou, pono ʻoe e hāmama i nā ala ʻē aʻe o ka mālama ʻana o kekahi i kekahi. "Mai hoʻohālikelike i kāu hoʻokele moekolohe me kāna," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Ua like nā kāne me nā microwaves-wikiwiki i ka wela a me ka wikiwiki e hoʻopau-ʻoiai nā wahine e like me nā crockpots." Hōʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻohana pono ʻana i nā wikiwiki, nā hālāwai hālāwai awakea, a me ka moekolohe waha ma waena o nā kau aloha hou aku.

Pāʻoihana lumi ʻauʻau

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E waiho ana ka noho ʻauʻau. Ke kū nei kekahi o ʻoe a ʻo kekahi e noho ana, noho wale ia. Akā ʻaʻole ka pilikia i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kahi lumipaku. Manaʻo ʻo Walsh e hoʻoholo koke i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻu i ka paheʻe (he ʻōwili pepa kīwī ʻole a i ʻole ka niho niho i loko o ka paila?) a me ka mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe (pee ma ka papahele?). ʻO ka hana ʻana i kahi lumipaku e lawe i kāu ʻaoʻao ʻelua akā ʻo nā mea āpau āu e hana ai, mai nag-a i ʻole hopena ʻoe me nā ʻano hana āu e makemake ʻole ai, wahi a Walsh. "ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka uku ʻana i kāna mau hana maikaʻi a laila e hoʻomanaʻo mau iā ia i kāna mau hana ʻino."

Manawa TV

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ʻAʻohe mea makemake i ke koko zombie e hoʻopololei i kā lākou ʻaʻahu mare i ka wā Nā kino make e hele wāwae nei paio me E i aku i ka lole, akau? Akā ʻoiai hopohopo nui nā mea pane e pili ana i ka hoʻokūkū ma nā ʻano kīwī i hana ia i nā hopohopo nui ʻelima, ʻōlelo ʻo Walsh ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike i nā squabbles ke kumu maoli, akā pehea ʻoe e hoʻoponopono ai i ka hakakā ma ka laulā. He miliona mau mea e hakakā ai a hoʻomaka pinepine kēlā mau hakakā ma kahi mea liʻiliʻi, e like me ka TV. "ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e neʻe me kekahi a hiki i ka wā e loaʻa ai ʻoe i hoʻokahi hakakā nui," ʻōlelo ʻo ia. ʻAʻole ia i hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i ka wahine make-up maikaʻi akā i ʻike ʻoe i ke ʻano o ʻolua e mālama ai i ka hakakā. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kekahi mau kāne e aʻo mua i ka neʻe ʻana he ala maikaʻi loa e noʻonoʻo ai pehea e hoʻoholo ai i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa.

I ka hopena, e hana ana i nā kink e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia. "Ke hōʻike nei ka noiʻi ua mākaukau nā kāne hauʻoli e pane i nā nīnau koʻikoʻi, e like me kahi e hele ai ka pilina me nā mea o kēlā me kēia lā," wahi āna. "A inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia (a ʻo ʻoe) e pane i nā nīnau paʻakikī, a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e neʻe pū."

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