Hōʻike ʻo Fed Up New Mom i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i nā ʻāpana C

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Me he mea lā i kēlā me kēia lā e kū mai kahi poʻo poʻo hou e pili ana i kahi makuahine i hoʻohilahila ʻia no kekahi ʻano kūlohelohe o ka hānau ʻana (e like me kāu e ʻike nei, e kau ana nā kaha kau). Akā mahalo i nā pāpili kaiaulu, kekahi mau kumuhana kapu ma mua, e like me ke kaumaha ma hope o ka hapa a me ka hānai ʻana i ka lehulehu i ka hopena. Eia nō naʻe, i kā mākou moʻomeheu o ka hoʻokaʻawale nui ʻana, ʻaʻole pinepine mākou e lohe i nā moʻolelo maka ʻole ʻole ʻia mai nā makuahine hou e pili ana i ka ʻeha o ke kino (a me ka naʻau pinepine) o kahi hānau C-a me ka hoʻoholo e hiki ke kaumaha. hele mai me ia. Mahalo i hoʻokahi makuahine hānai, akā naʻe, ua hāpai ʻia kēlā pale.

"Oh. A C-ʻāpana? No laila ʻaʻole ʻoe i hānau maoli. Maikaʻi paha ke lawe i ke ala maʻalahi e like me kēlā," hoʻomaka ʻo Raye Lee i kāna pou, kahi i loaʻa nā kiʻi o kāna scars C-section. "Ah, ʻae. ʻO kaʻu ʻāpana C-ʻāpana he mea maʻalahi loa ia. Maikaʻi loa ka hana ʻana no 38 mau hola ma mua o ka pilikia ʻana o kaʻu pēpē a laila kū pololei kēlā me kēia contraction I KONA LOA," kākau ʻo ia i kāna pou , i kēia manawa he 24,000 nā ʻāpana.

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Hoʻomau ʻo ia e wehewehe i ka pīhoihoi o ke aʻo ʻana e hoʻomākaukau ʻia ʻo ia no ka ʻoki ʻana i ka ʻōpū nui i mea e hoʻopakele ai i ke ola o kāna pēpē, a wehewehe kikoʻī i ke ʻano o kāna hana o ka hānau ʻana. (Pili: Ua hoʻolauleʻa kēia Mommy Blogger i kāna kino post-pēpē me kahi selfie ʻōlohelohe Inspirational)

"Ke huki ʻia nei kahi pēpē uē mai kahi ʻokiʻoki he 5 ʻīniha wale nō ka lōʻihi, akā ʻoki ʻia a ʻokiʻoki ʻia a huki ʻia a hiki i ka wā e hemo ai i kāu mau papa momona, nā mākala, a me nā meaola (e waiho ana lākou ma ka papa ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāu ke kino, i mea e hoʻomau ai e ʻoki a hiki i kāu keiki) he ʻano ʻokoʻa loa ia ma mua o kaʻu i manaʻo ai e hānau ana kaʻu keiki. "

Kūlike ʻole i ka poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo he Cesarean ke 'ala maʻalahi,' ua wehewehe ʻo Raye Lee i ke ʻano o ke ʻoki ʻana "ka mea ʻeha loa aʻu i ʻike ai i koʻu ola" a ua like ka hoʻomāinoino o ka hoʻōla ʻana. "Hoʻohana ʻoe i kou mau mākia maʻa mau no nā mea āpau ... ʻoiai e noho ana i lalo, e noʻonoʻo i ka hiki ʻole iā lākou ke hoʻohana ia mau mea no ka mea ua ʻoki a wili ʻia lākou e ke kauka a hiki ʻole ke hoʻoponopono iā lākou no 6 + mau pule no ka mea pono i kou kino e hana maʻamau, "kākau ʻo ia. (No kēia kumu ke paipai nei nā docs e hōʻalo i nā hana ʻōpū no ʻekolu mau mahina, ʻoiai e ʻānō ka wahi e pili ana i ka ʻokiʻoki no ʻeono mau mahina a ʻoi paha. FitPregnancy hōʻike ma Kou Kino Hoʻololi Ma hope o kahi C-Paukū.

Pololei ʻo Raye Lee: ʻOiai ʻo ka hānau ʻana o ka hānau hānau ʻike pinepine ʻia ʻo 'maʻalahi,' i ka nui o nā hihia, ʻaʻole ia. "No nā makuahine ʻaʻohe o lākou kūlana pilikia, ʻoi aku ka palekana o kahi Cesarean no ka makuahine a me ka pēpē ma mua o ka hānau hānau ʻana," ʻo ka mea noiʻi hānau hānau ʻo Eugene Declercq, Ph.D. haʻi ʻia Kūpono Hapai.

ʻOiai kāna ʻike scarring (maoli), he nānā maikaʻi kāna i kāna moʻolelo hānau, a manaʻo iā ia iho he ʻāpana o kahi "ʻohana badass o nā mamas." A ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo pono e hele i kāna pou hoʻopono hoʻomāinoino, kākau ʻo Raye Lee i kahi pou Facebook ma hope o kāna "hauʻoli nui i ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka poʻe i ka ʻike ʻaʻole hiki i nā mommies āpau ke hoʻopuka i ke ala kūlohelohe. ʻAʻole wau nāwaliwali. He koa au. " Hauʻoli e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻolaha i ka ʻike, Raye Lee!

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