Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻi iā haʻi no ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i kahi STD?

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Ua hoʻopiʻi ʻia ʻo Usher e nā wahine ʻelua a me kahi kāne no ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lāua i ka herpes i ka wā o ka moekolohe, e like me kā lāua loio ʻo Lisa Bloom i loko o kahi hālāwai kūkā i kēia lā. Ua hele mai kēia ma hope o ka uku ʻana o ka mea mele i kahi wahine i $ 1.1 miliona e hoʻoponopono i kahi hoʻokolokolo a ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia i aʻo iā ia no kāna kūlana herpes a hāʻawi iā ia i ka maʻi i lawe ʻia i ka moekolohe i hiki ʻole ke hōʻola ʻia i ka makahiki 2012. hewa ʻo ia a i ʻole ʻino wale ia o nā mele mele maikaʻi ʻole i nā ʻaha e hoʻoholo-akā ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa hope loa āu e lohe ai e pili ana i ka hoʻopiʻi e like me kēia.

"ʻOi aku ka maʻamau o nā hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka hoʻoili ʻia ʻana o nā STD ma mua o kou manaʻo," wahi a Keith Cutler, Esq., he loio hoʻokolokolo a me ka hapalua o nā kāne male e noho luna kānāwai ma ʻO ka hale hoʻokolokolo me nā mea ʻoki. "Hoʻolohe wale mākou e pili ana i nā hihia e pili ana i ka poʻe kaulana, akā nui ka nui o nā hoʻopiʻi ʻana a ka poʻe kaulana ʻole ke ʻike lākou ua maʻi lākou. He pilikia koʻikoʻi kēia e pili ana i nā mea kaulana a me nā mea kaulana ʻole."

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana ua loaʻa ʻoe i ka maʻi i lawe ʻia ma ka moekolohe he mea hoʻonāukiuki, akā ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea nāna i hāʻawi iā ʻoe. ike ua maʻi lākou a ʻaʻole haʻi iā ʻoe e hōʻemi loa ia. He neʻe maoli nō ia, akā ke hōʻike ʻole nei i kahi STD i kahi lawehala kolohe? Ma muli o ke ʻano o ka maʻi, wahi a Dana Cutler, Esq., he loio hoʻokolokolo hoʻi a me ka luna kānāwai ʻO ka hale hoʻokolokolo me nā mea ʻoki.

"ʻAʻole nā ​​kānāwai pekelala e koi ana i kahi kanaka e hōʻike inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi STD," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Akā aia nā kānāwai moku'āina e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i nā hoa pili wahine inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau STD-maʻamau ʻo HIV/AIDS a i ʻole herpes ma muli o ke ʻano o kēlā mau maʻi." (Heluhelu: ʻAʻole hiki ke ola.)

I Kaleponi, he feloni no kekahi mea HIV-maikaʻi e komo i ka moekolohe ʻole ʻia, ʻaʻole e haʻi i kā lākou hoa e pili ana i ko lākou kūlana, a i ʻole i ka moekolohe me ka manaʻo e hoʻopilikia i kā lākou hoa. Inā hoʻohewa ʻia, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻi ʻia a hiki i nā makahiki ʻewalu i loko o ka hale paʻahao. Loaʻa i kekahi mau STD ʻē aʻe nā kūlana like akā me nā hoʻopaʻi liʻiliʻi a me nā uku.

Pēlā nō, ua ʻōlelo ʻo NūIoka he kuleana ko kekahi kanaka maʻi e aʻoaʻo aku i kā lākou mau hoa moe kolohe inā loaʻa iā lākou kekahi STD, me ka maopopo o ke kūlana STD hiki ke lilo i mea haʻihaʻi i ka hookup. Nui nā mokuʻāina ʻē aʻe i loaʻa nā kānāwai like e pili ana i nā puke a ua hopena lākou i nā kūʻiʻo. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole pale ka mea maʻi i ka hoʻopiʻi hewa a i ʻole ke kuleana kīwila no ka mea ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kāna hoa pili i ka maʻi; a i ʻole no ka mea he moe kolohe ia; a i ʻole no ka hoʻohana ʻia o ka pale, hoʻohui ʻo Dana Cutler.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole i pau i ka hoʻopaʻi hewa, ʻo ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi STD hiki ke hopena i kahi hoʻopiʻi kīwila, e like me ka mea a Usher e kū nei. Hoʻokumu pinepine ʻia kahi hihia kīwila ma ka mālama pono ʻole ʻana, ka wahaheʻe wahaheʻe ʻole ʻana, ka hoʻoulu ʻia ʻana o ka naʻau kaumaha, a me ka puʻukū, me nā uku e hāʻawi ʻia ana ma muli o ke kumu kūʻai e pili ana i ka mālama wā lōʻihi a me ka mālama ʻana e koi ʻia e nā maʻi hiki ʻole ke ola e like me herpes, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Ua loaʻa i kahi wahine Oregon he $ 900,000 i ka makahiki 2012 ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka herpes, ua hoʻopiʻi ka wahine Iowa i kāna ex a loaʻa kahi $ 1.5 miliona i loaʻa, a ua loaʻa i kahi wahine Kanada he $ 218 miliona ma hope o ka maʻi ʻana o kāna ipo iā ia.

Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana weliweli o ka ʻike ʻana ua hāʻawi aku kāu hoa moe kolohe iā ʻoe i kahi STD, ʻaʻole ʻoe e noho wale: Aia ma luna o 20 miliona mau hihia hou o STD i kēlā me kēia makahiki a ʻoi aku ma mua o 400 miliona ʻAmelika i loaʻa i ka herpes, e like me ka Centers no ka mālama maʻi. Akā he mau koho kū kānāwai kāu. ʻO kāu koho mua ʻo ka waiho ʻana i kahi hoʻopiʻi kīwila a ʻimi i nā pohō kālā no kāu mau koina olakino e pono ai a no ka pilikia o ka naʻau ma muli o ka hoʻolaha ʻana, wahi a Keith Cutler. A inā ʻoe e hilinaʻi me ka manaʻo ʻole a kolohe paha i kāu hoa, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke faila i kahi hōʻike me nā mākaʻi, hoʻohui ʻo ia.

I kēia manawa, e nīnau pono i kāu hoa i kāna kūlana STD (eia pehea e hana ai i kēlā kamaʻilio hōʻoluʻolu ʻole) a hoʻohana i kahi condom i kēlā me kēia manawa ke moe kolohe ʻoe. (Mai lawe wale i kāna ʻōlelo no ka mea-ʻaʻole i hoʻāʻo ʻia ka hapalua o nā kāne no STD!)

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