7 mau kamaʻilio pono e loaʻa iā ʻoe no ke ola wahine maikaʻi

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• Ke Kamailio Moolelo Hoao
• Ke Kūkā Hoʻohuli (A Huli-Huli) Kamaʻilio
• Ke kamaʻilio pinepine ʻana
• Ke kamaʻilio Fantasy
• Ke kamaʻilio hoʻopunipuni
• Ka Kamailio Olelo Aloha
• ʻO ke kamaʻilio hoʻopaʻa inoa
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ʻO ka makaʻu i ka hōʻino ʻana i ka hulu o kāu mea koʻikoʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopiʻi i ka wā e kamaʻilio pololei ai e pili ana i ka moekolohe. Akā ʻo ka hulu ʻana i nā kumuhana paʻakikī ma lalo o ke kapeta hiki ke loaʻa ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pane (a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke ʻano o ka lumi moe!) ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī. He mea koʻikoʻi kēia mau kamaʻilio pono ʻana i ka mālama ʻana i kahi pilina pili kino olakino a hoʻokō-a me kā mākou mau hoʻolālā i ʻae ʻia no ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i kēlā me kēia, e ʻike pono ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ke kahua no nā kamaʻilio pilikino e hoʻokokoke ai iā ʻoe.

Ke Kamailio Moolelo Hoao

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"ʻO koʻu lula o ka manamana lima ʻo ia ke maopopo iā ʻoe aia kekahi ʻano hoihoi like, e kamaʻilio pū," wahi a Laura Berman, Ph.D., a Nu Ioka Manawa mea kūʻai maikaʻi loa i ka moekolohe a me ka loea pili. He mea nui e kūkākūkā i nā ho'āʻo STD a me HIV, a me ka lā o kāu hōʻike hope loa. Alakaʻi i ke ala ma ke kaʻana like ʻana i kou hope, wahi a Berman. ʻO ka ʻōlelo wale ʻana, "Ua hoʻāʻo ʻia au mai koʻu wā i moe ai me kekahi mea hope loa - pehea ʻoe?" mālama i ke kamaʻilio māmā a emi iki ka hoʻoweliweli. He aha ka mea e pono ʻole ai e kūkākūkā ʻia? ʻO kāu "helu," wahi a Berman."ʻO nā mea āpau e hana ai ka insecurities." Inā he kanaka ʻē aʻe ʻoe a he 100 paha, he bila nui no ke olakino a me ka mōʻaukala o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e pili ana i kou kino ka mea nui.

Ke Kūkā Hoʻohuli (A Huli-Huli) Kamaʻilio

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Ke noi nei i kāu pakanā e hōʻoki i ka huki ʻana i kou lauoho ke climaxes ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ma mua o ka haʻi ʻana iā ia, "Aloha au iā ʻoe ke [hoʻopiha i ka hakahaka]." Akā ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana i nā mea e hele ai a me nā mea e huli aku ai iā ʻoe. E lawe mai i nā makemake ʻole i lalo a me ka lepo ma waho o ka lumi moe, i ʻōlelo ʻo Berman, nāna i hoʻohui he nui nā kāne i kuhi hewa i ka loaʻa ʻana iā lākou i kēia manawa, a ke hana nei i kahi wahi nāwaliwali loa. Akā ma mua o ka hōʻike ākea ʻana i ka lawena i makemake ʻole ʻia, e hoʻopili i ke kūlana me kahi maikaʻi, wahi a Andrea Syrtash, ka mea kākau o Cheat on Your Husband (Me kāu kāne). "E, 'Aloha nui wau i ka moekolohe ʻana me ʻoe, a makemake wau e hoʻāʻo i kēia.' ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi koho e ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi o ka hana e ʻae iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i ka huli ʻana a ke hōʻike pū nei hoʻi i kahi huli, wahi a Syrtash. [Tweet this tip!]

Ke kamaʻilio pinepine ʻana

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I ka hiki ʻana mai i ka alapine āu e loaʻa ai ka freaky, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e noho i ka ʻōlelo like akā pono ʻoe ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, wahi a Berman. He aha ke ʻano o ia mea: "Inā makemake ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia lā a makemake ʻoe iā ia i hoʻokahi manawa i ka mahina, e lilo ia i pilikia." E like me nā mea āpau āpau, kī ke kuʻikahi. E like me ka unsexy e like me ke kani ʻana, e hoʻāʻo e mālama i kahi papa moekolohe. Hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manawa e hopu ai i nā props, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻauʻau, a i ʻole e pale i nā pilikia makemake ʻole. ʻ suggestslelo ʻo Berman e kaʻana like i ka ʻike moekolohe ma kahi o ʻelua mau manawa i kēlā me kēia pule, akā ua ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻaʻole he "helu hoʻokalakupua" e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i ka hauʻoli pili. Pono nā hoa hana e ʻimi i ke alapine e hoʻokō ai lākou.

Ke kamaʻilio Fantasy

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Ke hāʻawi nei i nā hanana e hoʻoulu hou i kāu ʻenekini i kāu manawa ʻē aʻe i ka manawa kūpono e lawe i kāu moemoeā i ke ola-e hoʻokokoke loa ana iā ʻoe. Akā ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā ʻiʻio wahine ma mua o ka hana. Inā hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻoe, e hana i kahi ʻaelike ʻaʻole e hoʻoholo ʻia, wahi a Berman. (Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolohe me ka ʻole e lele i luna o ka moku.) A inā makemake kāu pakanā (a i ʻole ʻoe, no kēlā mea) e hōʻaʻahu iā ʻoe i kahi lole Wonder Woman a he noho swivel (a ʻaʻohe ou makemake i kahi ʻāpana) ? ʻ suggestslelo ʻo Berman e hana i kahi "palapala ʻāina moemoeā." E kākau ʻolua a me ʻoe i kāu mau makemake a hoʻohālikelike i nā memo e hana i kahi papa inoa haku. He aha inā inā makemake nui kekahi o ʻoukou e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea a ka ʻē aʻe aloha ʻole ai? E ʻike i kahi e hele mai ai ka makemake a e noʻonoʻo i kahi kuikahi hana, wahi a Berman. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā makemake ʻo ia e moekolohe i ka lehulehu-a ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo e kau i kahi kapa ma ka lanai hope kahi e loaʻa ai kahi manawa iki o kāu mau hoalauna e ʻaʻa ana i kahi piko.

Ke kamaʻilio hoʻopunipuni

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ʻAʻole ʻeleʻele a keʻokeʻo ka mea e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka hoʻomaloka. Akā ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana i ke kumuhana o ka hoʻopunipuni-a loaʻa me nā pale liʻiliʻi-inā ʻaʻole i hoʻoulu ʻia e ka kānalua. No laila, mai kali a hiki i kahi hewa e wehewehe ai i ka lawena e ʻae ʻole. Ma ke ʻano he kāne, e hana i kahi papa inoa o nā hana āu e noʻonoʻo ai i ka hoʻopunipuni (e kaha ʻoe i ka laina i ka pā ʻana, akā maikaʻi ka hulahula?). Mai poina i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka ʻenehana: E ʻike anei ʻoe i ke kelepona a me ka leka uila o kēlā me kēia? E hoa aloha paha ʻoe me kāu ex ma Facebook a i ʻole Snapchat? [Tweet i kēia kihi!]

Ka Kamailio Olelo Aloha

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ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i nā hana e hana ai i kāu hoa aloha e aloha ʻia a mahalo ʻia, inā maʻalahi ia e like me ka paʻa ʻana o nā lima a me ka mahuahi paha e like me ka hoʻouna ʻana i nā leka uila, a me ke kuhi ʻana e hana i kēlā mau mea e like me ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina moekolohe maikaʻi, wahi a Berman. Wahi a Gary Chapman ka mea kūʻai maikaʻi loa ʻO 5 ʻŌlelo Aloha, Hāʻawi a loaʻa nā kānaka i ke aloha aloha ma nā ʻano like ʻole ʻelima: nā makana, ka manawa maikaʻi, nā huaʻōlelo o ka hōʻoia a i ʻole ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, nā hana lawelawe, a me ka hoʻopā kino. Hiki i nā kāne me nā ʻōlelo aloha like ʻole ke hoʻomāʻona i kekahi i kekahi inā lōʻihi ka kamaʻilio ʻana o lāua i ka mea e manaʻo nui ai lāua. Manaʻo ʻo Berman e kākau i ʻekolu a ʻelima mau huaʻōlelo i hoʻomaka me "I aloha ʻia ke aloha ..." a kaʻana like kekahi me kekahi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i nā mea āpau mai "ke paʻa ʻoe i koʻu lima" a i ʻole "ke hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka moekolohe" a "ke holoi holoi ʻoe me ke noi ʻole ʻia mai." E noʻonoʻo pū i ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana o kāu hoa kāne iā ʻoe ke maikaʻi lākou, wahi a Berman. Hoʻonani lākou iā ʻoe? "Aloha mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ke ala a mākou e makemake nui ai e aloha ʻia," wahi a Berman. "Akā, e hoʻohālike i kāu mau hana ma hope o kā lākou hana a hiki paha ʻoe i ka pahuhopu."

ʻO ke kamaʻilio hoʻopaʻa inoa

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He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo he kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka moekolohe ʻaʻole hoʻokahi a hana ʻia. "E ulu a makemake kā mākou mau makemake a he aha ka mea iā ʻoe ke pili a i ʻole i kou makahiki mua o ka male ʻana ʻaʻole paha e paʻa i loko o ʻumi mau makahiki," wahi a Syrtash. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka lōʻihi o ka noho pū ʻana o kahi ʻelua, ʻo ka liʻiliʻi paha ia e wānana pololei i nā makemake a kā lāua hoa, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. ʻO ia ke kumu o ke kamaʻilio kī. E haʻi aku i kekahi i kekahi inā e loli ana kāu mau ʻono, a i ʻole, ʻoiai ʻoe e makemake ana e noho i luna, makemake i ka style cowgirl huli.

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