He aha kēlā me kēia wahine e pono ai e ʻike e pili ana i ka waiwai ponoʻī

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ʻO Lisa Leslie, kahi kaikamahine i kuʻi i 6 kapuaʻi ke kiʻekiʻe i ka papa 6, komo i kahi kāmaʻa 12 ka nui i kona manawa he 12 mau makahiki, a loaʻa iā ia kāna ʻāpana o "pehea ka ea ma uka?" hiki i ka pau ʻana o nā hoʻomākeʻaka me ka ʻano o ka manaʻo pilikino ma mua o ka hōkū. Akā ua hōʻoia ʻo Leslie i kona ʻano olakino o ka hilinaʻi i ke kino-a me kona makemake e ʻike i nā kaikamahine āpau e hoʻomohala iā lākou iho-iā ia i ka makuahine 6'3 "(a me kahi makuakāne 6'4") i ʻōlelo, "ua hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia mākou i ka ulu ʻana o o loko a ʻo waho. "

Ua hopu mākou i kēia WNBA Mea Pâʻani Poʻokela Loa a me ʻehā manawa mekala gula 'Olumepika ma The Women's Conference ma Kaleponi, ma hope koke iho o kahi papa i mālama ʻia e Dove no ka manaʻo pilikino. ʻO kāna mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hilinaʻi:

1. E papa inoa i kāu mau waiwai-a manaʻoʻiʻo iā lākou

"He leo nui ko kekahi poʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hīmeni iki," wahi a Leslie. "ʻAʻole kaʻu taleni kēlā." No ka loaʻa ʻana o kou manaʻo iā ʻoe iho ma kahi kūpono, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "pono ​​ʻoe e loaʻa ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe. E ʻimi i nā mea āu e makemake ai. Kāpena nui iā lākou. Ua hiki iā Leslie ke ʻakaʻaka e pili ana i kona kiʻekiʻe. Akā, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "ua loaʻa i kēia kino iaʻu kekahi mau ʻāpana."

Ma ka papa like, ua wehewehe ʻo Katherine Schwarzenegger i kahi meltdown ma waena o "Ke inaina nei au i nā mea āpau e pili ana iaʻu iho" manawa a me ka mea i hoʻokuʻu iā ia mai ia mea. ʻO ka makuahine noʻonoʻo wikiwiki ʻo Katherine, ʻo Maria Shriver, iā ia e hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea āpau āna i makemake ai a makemake ʻole iā ia iho. "I ka hopena, ua lōʻihi ka papa inoa o nā makemake ma mua o ka papa inoa o nā makemake ʻole," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i ka lumi e hana nei i nā memo e hana i ka papa inoa like iā lākou iho, tweens ʻaʻole paha.

KĀMĀ HĀLĀWAI: E ʻike i ka mea e kūkulu nei i ka manaʻo ponoʻī o nā kaikamahine i kēia manawa

2. E kiʻi i kahi kumu aʻo, mai kahi puke mai

He aha inā ʻaʻohe waiwai i kou ʻohana i kāu mea, e like me kā Lisa Leslie? "Pilikia maoli nā kaikamahine me ka ʻole o kē kākoʻo no ke aloha. No kēlā mau kaikamahine ʻōpio, manaʻo wau i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā puke kōkua pilikino hiki ke kōkua. ʻAʻole wau e hoʻāʻo e pīpī i kaʻu kāne [Michael Lockwood], akā ʻo ia ka mea kākau o kahi puke i kapa ʻia Loaʻa i nā wāhine ka mana a pau, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike a kōkua ia i ka poʻe ʻōpio e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou mana i ka wā ʻōpio. ʻO kekahi mea e hiki i nā kaikamahine ke ʻimi i kahi alakaʻi mai nā makuahine o haʻi. "

NĀ MANAʻO: E hoʻoikaika i kou hilinaʻi i kēlā me kēia makahiki

3. ʻO ka nui: E hoʻonoho i nā pahuhopu

"ʻO ke kī i kōkua mai iaʻu, ua hoʻomaka wau e kākau i kaʻu mau pahuhopu. I ka papa 9, ua hoʻomaka wau i ke kākau ʻana i nā pahu hopu pōkole aʻu i makemake ai e hoʻokō i loko o ka makahiki a laila nā pahuhopu wā lōʻihi, ʻo ia nā mea aʻu i makemake ai e hoʻokō. i 5 mau makahiki. " Ma ka papa inoa pōkole o kēlā makahiki: Ke kiʻi nei i kahi 3.5 GPA a lilo i mea pāʻani maikaʻi loa i ka lāhui (hana ʻia e ke ala). Wā lōʻihi? E pani ana i ka USA ma ka 'Olumepika. "Ma muli o kaʻu loaʻa ʻana o kēia mau kulekele ua nui koʻu nānā ʻana, ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka poʻe e kamaʻilio ana e pili ana iaʻu he kekona nui ia i koʻu ola. Pono wau e kau i nā mea ʻē aʻe." Hoʻonoho mau ʻo ia me kāna kāne i nā pahuhopu kālā, nā pahuhopu o kēlā me kēia, nā pahuhopu ma ke ʻano he kāne, a me nā pahuhopu no kā lāua mau keiki. I luna aʻe? Ke hoʻopau nei i kēlā mau papa hope hope ʻelua o kāna MBA ʻoiai e hana ana i nā mea āpau āpau-me ke aʻo ʻana i kāna mau keiki ʻelua e mālama i ko lākou manaʻo kiʻekiʻe.

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