Loaʻa kahi pēpē ma 50: ʻo 50 ka New 40?

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• Ke lilo nei i mea maʻamau
• He aha nā pōmaikaʻi i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope o ke ola?
• Akā aia kekahi mau mea e noʻonoʻo ai
• Pehea e hāpai ai ma 50
• Ke hoʻohana nei i nā hua moa paʻa
• Ke hoʻohana nei i kahi halihali hāpai
• Ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ma waena o nā ʻōpū hāpai a me ka menopause
• Pehea ke ʻano o ka hāpai ʻana?
• Aia kekahi hopohopo kūikawā e pili ana i ka hana a me ka lawe ʻana?
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

Ke lilo nei i mea maʻamau

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope o 35 mau makahiki ka mea maʻamau ma mua o ka wā, akā ʻaʻole kū ka buck ma laila. Nui nā wahine i ko 40 a me 50s, pū kekahi.

Ua lohe mākou āpau e pili ana i ka tick-tock, ʻō-kiko o kēlā "uaki kūolaola," a he ʻoiaʻiʻo - hiki i ka makahiki ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa i ka manaʻo kūlohelohe. Akā mahalo i nā ʻenehana hānau, ke ʻano hoʻokahi a me ke kali ʻana a hiki i ka manawa kūpono - ʻoiai inā aia ʻoe i kāu 40 a i ʻole ma hope o kou pā ʻana i ka 5-0 nui - he koho maoli paha.

Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana i kahi pēpē ma 50, a inā ʻoe i kāu 50 a ke manaʻo nei, he nui paha kāu mau nīnau. ʻOiai ʻo kāu kauka kāu mea e hele ai i kāu kanaka no nā pane, eia kekahi ʻike e pono ai e hoʻomaka.

He aha nā pōmaikaʻi i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope o ke ola?

ʻOiai he poʻe maʻamau nā keiki i kā lākou mau 20 a 30 mau makahiki, manaʻo ka poʻe he nui kekahi mau keu ke kali ʻana - a i ʻole ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi keiki ʻē aʻe i nā makahiki ʻohana ma hope o kāu loaʻa mua.

Makemake paha ʻoe e huakaʻi, hoʻokumu a holomua i kāu ʻoihana, a i ʻole ʻoluʻolu me kou ʻike ponoʻī ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ʻohana. ʻO kēia nā kumu i makemake nui ʻia no ka haʻalele ʻana i ka wā makua.

A i ʻole, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi hoa ma hope o ke ola a hoʻoholo e makemake ʻoe i nā keiki. A i ʻole - a he legit loa kēia! - makemake paha ʻoe i nā keiki ke ʻōpio ʻoe, a laila hoʻololi i kou manaʻo.

Ke hiki ʻoe i kāu 40 a 50 mau makahiki, loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa kālā a me ka maʻalahi hiki ke maʻalahi i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki. E loaʻa hou iā ʻoe nā ʻike ola. (Mai noʻonoʻo wale i kēia no ka loaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe nā pane āpau i ka wā e pili ana i ka makua - ʻaʻole mākou e hālāwai me kekahi e hana!)

Loaʻa i nā keiki me kahi āpau nui i ko lākou mau makahiki he mau pōmaikaʻi hoʻi e hoʻopiʻi i nā ʻohana he nui. Hāʻawi kahi hui o nā keiki nui a ʻōpio hoʻi i nā ʻelemakule e hana i ka hana nui i ka mālama ʻana i kahi mea hou.

A inā he mau keiki kāu inā hāpai ʻoe i kāu 40 a i ʻole 50 mau makahiki, e aloha hou ʻoe i nā hauʻoli o ka wā makua - a me ka liʻiliʻi paha o ke koʻikoʻi ma mua o ka manawa mua.

Akā aia kekahi mau mea e noʻonoʻo ai

ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope o ke ola i kekahi mau ʻano, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka hāpai ʻana. E noʻonoʻo pono ʻia kou hāpai ʻana i ka makaʻu kiʻekiʻe.

ʻO kekahi o nā pilikia o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pēpē i kāu mau 50 mau makahiki:

• preeclampsia (kahi ʻano o ke koko kiʻekiʻe e hoʻomohala i ka wā hāpai e hiki ai ke hoʻoweliweli i ke ola)
• mimikō hāpai
• hāpai keiki ectopic (ke pili ka hua i waho o kou kōpū)
• ʻoi aku ka makaʻu o ka pono i kahi hoʻouna cesarean
• hāʻule hāʻule
• hānau hānau hou

Aia kekahi mau loli nohona e noʻonoʻo ai. ʻOiai hoʻokipa kekahi mau wahine i ko lākou 50 mau makahiki ma ke ʻano he manawa kūpono e mākaʻikaʻi ai i ka "manawa iaʻu," hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ke hoʻopilikia i kēia. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā milestones maʻamau ʻē aʻe e emi ana ka kuʻuna, e like me ka hoʻomaha loa ʻana a i ʻole ka huakaʻi ʻana e hiki mai ana.

Hoʻohui ʻia, aia kekahi mau pilikia pili i kāu pēpē. ʻO ka hope i kou ola he pēpē ʻoe, ʻoi aku ke kiʻekiʻe o ka makaʻu o:

• kino kīnā
• hānau kīnā ʻole
• nā ʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka chromosome, e like me Down Syndrome
• kaumaha hānau haʻahaʻa

Akamai ke komo i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka hāpai e kūkākūkā i kāu mau pahu hānau me kāu kauka. Hiki iā lākou ke hele i nā kikoʻī e pili ana i nā pilikia a me nā noʻonoʻo.

Pehea e hāpai ai ma 50

ʻO ke kamaʻilio biologically, hānau mākou me nā hua manu āpau a mākou e loaʻa. Ke kuʻi mākou i ka wā ʻōpio a hoʻomaka i ka menstruating, e hoʻokuʻu mākou i kahi hua manu i kēlā me kēia pōʻaiapuni. Akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kulu o ka helu hua manu ma mua o kēlā, a e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia kā mākou helu i kēlā me kēia makahiki a hiki i ka pā ʻana o ka menopause.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua koho ʻia he 1,000 wale nō oosittes ka wahine maʻamau (i kapa ʻia he mau pūnana hua manu) i ka manawa i piha i kona mau makahiki 51. He kulu nui kēia mai 500,000 i ka wā ʻōpio a 25,000 i kou mau makahiki 30.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole hāpai ka hāpai ʻana me nā liʻiliʻi o nā huna hua manu, ʻo ka manaʻo paha e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilikia hou aʻe e hāpai kūlohelohe.

Hoʻoemi ka maikaʻi o ka hua manu i ko mākou mau makahiki, hiki ke hoʻolilo i ka manaʻo kuhihewa a hoʻonui i ka makaʻu o nā kino chromosomal, i hiki ke lilo i ka hāpai mua ʻana o ka hāpai.

ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ākea e ʻike i kahi loea hānau inā ua hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hāpai kūlohelohe no ʻeono mau mahina me ka ʻole o nā hopena a ua hala ʻoe ma 35 mau makahiki.

Eia nō naʻe, inā e hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e hāpai i kāu mau makahiki 50, makemake paha ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i ka ʻike mua ʻana i kahi loea hānau, ma muli o ka pau koke o nā oosit.

E ʻōlelo paha ka loea i ka lawe mua ʻana i nā lāʻau e hoʻohua ai e hōʻoia. He mea kōkua paha kēia i ka perimenopause, ke piʻi nui ʻole kāu mau pōʻaiapuni.

I kekahi manawa, lawa ka lawe ʻana i kēia mau lāʻau e hopena ai i ka hāpai hāpai maikaʻi ʻana ma hope o ka manawa liʻiliʻi. Hiki i kēia mau lāʻau ke hoʻonui i ka nui o nā hua moa makua āu e hoʻokuʻu ai i ka wā o kahi pōʻaiapuni, no laila e hana ana i nā "target" hou aku no ka sperm.

A i ʻole - inā ʻoe e pilikia nei i ka hāpai ʻana - e haʻi aku kāu loea hānau ʻoe e pili ana i nā koho ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā lākou ke koi aku i ka hoʻouluulu vitro (IVF), kahi hana e lawe i nā hua mai kou kino a laila momona lākou me ka sperm i kahi kaʻawale i kahi keʻena ma mua o ka hoʻokomo ʻana iā lākou i ka uterus.

Lawe ʻia nā hua manu he nui i ka manawa, ʻoiai ʻaʻole e manaʻo ʻia e momona pono nā mea āpau. E pau paha ʻoe me ka ʻole, hoʻokahi, a i ʻole nā ​​embryos he nui ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka pōʻaiapuni o IVF.

Inā 50 ʻoe, e ʻōlelo paha kāu kauka he ʻoi aku ʻoe ma mua o hoʻokahi embryo i hoʻoili ʻia (inā ua loaʻa ʻoe iā lākou) e hoʻonui i kou manawa e "koʻokoʻo" kekahi o lākou.

Eia nō naʻe, hiki nō i nā embryo āpau āu i hoʻololi ai e hoʻokomo - e hopena ana i ka hāpai keiki ʻana me nā lehulehu! Ma muli o kēia hana no kahi hāpai keiki ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe, e ʻike pono e kūkā kamaʻilio me ka kauka me kāu kauka.

ʻAʻole mākou e sugarcoat iā ia - e lilo kāu mau makahiki i kumuhana kūkākūkā i kēia kaʻina hana. (He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia no nā wahine i ko lākou 30 kiʻekiʻe.) Ma muli o ka maikaʻi o ka maikaʻi o ka hua manu, e paipai ʻia paha ʻoe e hana i nā hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā genry (s) i puka mai ka hana IVF.

Hiki ke pipiʻi kēia, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻoia i nā hopena me ka 100 pākēneka pololei. Akā ke koho ʻana i nā embryo ʻoi loa - nā mea me ka ʻike ʻole ʻia o nā ʻano kūlohelohe o kēia wā - hāʻawi paha iā ʻoe i ka likelihood nui loa o ka kūleʻa o ka hāpai ʻana.

Ke hoʻohana nei i nā hua moa paʻa

ʻO ka hau ʻana i kāu mau hua (cryopreservation) ke wā ʻōpio ʻo ia ke koho maikaʻi inā manaʻo ʻoe makemake ʻoe e hoʻohui i kou ʻohana ma hope o ke ola. Pili pū kēia iā IVF. ʻO ka manaʻo he mau hua manu (a i ʻole nā ​​embryos) paʻahau a mākaukau ʻoe e hoʻohana ia mau mea, inā paha.

ʻAʻole hōʻoia ʻia ʻo Cryopreservation e hana i kahi hāpai hāpai kūleʻa, akā e like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o kāu huamoa hua i kou wā ʻōpio. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻohālua, ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka hānau hānau mai nā hua manu paʻahau.

Ke hoʻohana nei i kahi halihali hāpai

Hiki i kāu mau 50s ke lawe i kekahi mau pilikia hāpai, e like me ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻokuʻu i nā hua manu, ka nele o ka momona, a me ka nui o ka pilikia o ka hānau hānau ʻole.

I kēia mau kūlana, ke nānā nei paha ʻoe i kahi hāpai hāpai hiki, kahi wahine ʻē aʻe hiki ke kōkua i ka hāpai ʻana i kāu keiki i kēia manawa. E nīnau i kāu kauka pehea e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi pani.

Hiki i kahi hāpai hāpai ke hāpai i o IVF me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā embryos i hana ʻia me nā hua manu hāʻawi a i ʻole kāu. E pili kāu mau koho i kāu mau makemake a me ke olakino momona.

Ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ma waena o nā ʻōpū hāpai a me ka menopause

ʻO kahi hōʻailona hāpai - hana ʻia ma ka home a laila hōʻoia ʻia ma ke keʻena o kāu kauka - ʻo ia wale nō ke ala surefire e hoʻoholo ai inā he hāpai maoli ʻoe.

ʻAʻole makemake ʻoe e hele ma nā ʻōuli wale nō no ka mea hiki ke like nā hōʻailona mua o ka hāpai ʻana me nā menopause. Hoʻopili kēia i nā loli a me ka luhi - hiki ke hōʻailona i kou wā e hiki mai ana, no kēlā mea.

Hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā ʻoiaʻiʻo hana ʻole ka menopause a hele ʻoe me ka ʻole o kou manawa he 12 mau mahina ma ka lālani. Inā kū a hala kou mau wā, hiki paha ʻoe i ka pae perimenopause kahi i koe o nā hua i koe.

Ma ke ʻano he kuʻuna, inā mau ʻoe i ka menstruating, he mau hua kou a hiki ke hāpai maikaʻi loa.

No laila inā e loaʻa mau ana ʻoe i nā manawa a hoʻāʻo nei e hāpai, e nānā pono i kāu pōʻaiapuni a loaʻa i kahi hōʻike hāpai inā ua hala ʻoe i kahi manawa. ʻO ka maʻi kakahiaka kekahi hōʻailona mua o ka hāpai hāpai ʻole e kū me ka menopause.

Pehea ke ʻano o ka hāpai ʻana?

Ke ʻelemakule nei kou kino, ke hāpai nei i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i loko ou e lilo i mea paʻakikī. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke maʻalahi i nā pilikia o ka hāpai ʻana e like me:

• luhi
• ʻeha ka ʻili
• ʻeha pū
• nā wāwae pehu a me nā wāwae
• huhū a me ke kaumaha

Akā loaʻa i nā wahine hāpai āpau kekahi ʻano ʻoluʻolu - ʻaʻole ia he hele wāwae i ka pāka no kahi 25 makahiki paha. E like me ka ʻokoʻa o kēlā me kēia hāpai ʻana, hana kēlā me kēia keiki āu i nā ʻōuli ʻokoʻa.

Inā he keiki kāu ma mua o ke ola (a i ʻole ʻo nā mea hou loa), e hāmama i ka manaʻo e pili ana i ke kaʻina hāpai a hoʻomākaukau e ʻike i ke ʻano ʻokoʻa i kēia manawa.

ʻO kahi ʻokoʻa koʻikoʻi ka nānā nui ʻana o kou hāpai ʻana i kou wā ʻelemakule. Lohe paha ʻoe a ʻike paha i nā huaʻōlelo "hāpai wahine geriatric" - ua hala kahi lā, mahalo nui. - a me ka "makahiki makua holomua" i hoʻohana ʻia e pili ana i kāu hāpai kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe. Mai hōʻehaʻeha - hoʻohana ʻia kēia lepili no nā wahine hāpai e hoʻomaka ana i ko lākou hala ʻana o 30!

Ma luna o nā mea āpau, e mālama i kāu OB-GYN i ka loop e pili ana i kāu mau hōʻailona a me nā discomforts āpau e ʻike inā hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i kahi hōʻoluʻolu.

Aia kekahi hopohopo kūikawā e pili ana i ka hana a me ka lawe ʻana?

Ma hope o ka makahiki 50, aia kekahi mau pilikia hou aʻe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hana a me ka lawe ʻana. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi hānau cesarean ma muli o kou mau makahiki a me nā mālama ʻana o ka momona ma mua, kahi e hiki ai i ka preeclampsia.

ʻO kekahi kumu no ka ʻāpana c ka placenta previa, kahi ʻano e uhi ka placenta i ka cervix. ʻO ka hānau mua ʻole kahi manawa kiʻekiʻe aʻe, a laila hiki ke pono i kahi ʻāpana c.

Inā hāʻawi kāu kauka iā ʻoe i ka hele mua no ka lawe ʻana i ka ʻōpū, e nānā pono lākou iā ʻoe no ka makaʻu o ke kahe.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻOiai ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka maʻalahi, inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kahi pēpē i kāu mau makahiki 50 a ʻaʻole ʻoe i kuʻi i ka menopause, he koho ʻiʻo kāu. Ma mua o kou hoʻāʻo ʻana e hāpai, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i kou olakino a inā paha aia kekahi mea weliweli e hiki ke hoʻopilikia.

ʻO ka helu o nā hua āu i hōʻole kūlohelohe i kāu mau 40 a 50 paha. No laila inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i laki e hāpai kūlohelohe i loko o kekahi mau mahina, e noi i kāu OB-GYN no kahi hāʻawi i kahi loea hānau. Inā ʻaʻohe ou OB-GYN, hiki i ka mea hana Healthline FindCare ke kōkua iā ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi kauka i kou wahi.

Mai noʻonoʻo ua "lohi" ia - ke holomua nei mākou i ka ʻike i nā manawa āpau, a hele mai nā ʻohana i nā ʻano he nui. ʻO kāu hoʻoholo e hoʻohui i kāu kāu he mea pilikino ia me nā makana kūpono he nui.