ʻAe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāpai e like me kēlā!

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• ʻOiai hānai.
• Inā ʻoe e lawe i nā lāʻau ʻaloʻolika ʻoiai ma ka pila.
• Inā maʻi ʻoe i ka luaʻi a i ʻole ka maʻi pākī ʻoiai ma ka pila.
• Ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu vasectomy i kāu hoa.
• Ke hoʻohana nei i kahi IUD.
• Ke hoʻohana kūpono ʻole ʻana i ka condom.
• Ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia infertility a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana iā IVF e hāpai ai.
• Ke hāpai mua ʻoe.

Kāhea iā ia he kūlohelohe, kāhea iā ia i ka imperative meaola, kāhea iā ia he hao. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kou kino maʻamau makemake e hāpai ... ʻoiai ʻaʻole pololei ia ma kāu papa inoa hana. Makemake ka laha e ola, a ʻo mākou nā pawns o Mother Nature. (ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke mākou maoli makemake e hāpai, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia maʻalahi, akā he moʻolelo ʻē aʻe āpau ia no kahi ʻatikala ʻē aʻe.)

Eia nō naʻe, hoʻohana pinepine mākou i ka hapa nui o kā mākou mau makahiki hānau hou e hoʻāʻo ana ʻaʻole e hāpai ai, a ke kūleʻa nui nei mākou. Hoʻomaopopo ʻia mākou, ʻike mākou i ka hanau hānau e kūpono loa iā mākou, a ke ʻike nei mākou i nā pilikia maʻamau.

Akā eia ka mea: ʻo ka mea āu e manaʻo ai e pili ana i ka kaohi hānau ʻaʻole pololei paha ia. A ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kahi hāpai "kahaha" ma mua o kou manaʻo. No laila ma mua o ka hana hou ʻana i ka hana, e nānā i kēia ʻike e pili ana i nā hewa kuhi ʻehiku. He aha lākou? Hauʻoli loa mākou i kāu noi ʻana mai.

E manaʻoʻiʻo paha ʻaʻole paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāpai ...

ʻOiai hānai.

ʻAʻole nui nā makuahine hānai i kā lākou wā i ka wā e hānai ana. Alakaʻi kēia iā lākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole lākou i ovulate a no laila ʻaʻole hiki ke hāpai. ʻAʻole! ʻO ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hānai ʻana e like me ka kaohi hānau ʻana i kapa ʻia ka hana lactational amenorrhea (LAM), a hana pinepine i ka wā o kāu pēpē ma lalo o ʻeono mau makahiki, ke hānai wale nei ʻoe, a ʻaʻole ʻoe i kiʻi i kāu wā hānau mua.

Eia ka mea: Hoʻomaʻamaʻa pinepine mākou i ʻelua mau pule ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kā mākou wā mua. No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo, he 100 pākēneka e hāpai mau no ka mea hiki i kou kino ke kīpī hou i nā mea hana pēpē i kēlā me kēia manawa. Hoʻohui, hiki i nā pilikia o ke koʻikoʻi ke hōʻemi i kāu lako waiū, kahi e hoʻonui ai i nā hormona momona. ʻO wau iho, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu kekahi mau makuahine hou ʻaʻole ke ʻike nei i kekahi ʻano koʻikoʻi, no laila ke ʻano like kēia ʻano hana hānau me ka like o ka pēpē me ka roulette Rūkia.

Inā ʻoe e lawe i nā lāʻau ʻaloʻolika ʻoiai ma ka pila.

Aia kahi lepe hoʻolaha nui, momona ma kēlā me kēia ʻāpana pill e ʻōlelo ana ʻo ka lawe ʻana i nā lāʻau ʻalopika e hoʻoliʻiliʻi ai ka maikaʻi o ka pila, akā ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe e heluhelu i ka paʻi maikaʻi. Eia nō naʻe, hoʻokahi wale nō antibiotic i hōʻoia ʻia e hoʻopilikia i ka pila: rifampin, i hoʻohana ʻia e mālama ai i ka maʻi puʻupuʻu a me nā maʻi bacteria. Ua ʻōlelo nā ʻepekema ʻaʻohe pilikia i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā lāʻau ʻaloʻalo ʻē aʻe. ʻO kā lākou lawe ka hapai ʻana ma muli o ka heʻe ʻana o ka poʻe i ka pila a ʻelua paha ke maikaʻi ʻole lākou, a i ʻole hiki ʻole i ko lākou mau kino ke omo pono i nā hormona inā lākou e luaʻi ana a i ʻole ka pākī paha. ʻO nā mea āpau i ʻōlelo, ʻike wau i kahi helu maikaʻi o nā makuahine pill-popping i hāpai i ka wā e hāpai ana i nā antibiotic, no laila ʻaʻole paha ʻoe makemake e loaʻa wale.

Inā maʻi ʻoe i ka luaʻi a i ʻole ka maʻi pākī ʻoiai ma ka pila.

Inā ʻoe e ale i ka pila, akā luaʻi hou ia i luna, a hoʻouna koke paha me ka maʻi diarrhea, ʻaʻohe ona manawa e komo ai. No laila like ia me ʻoe i lawe ʻole i ka lāʻau.

Ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu vasectomy i kāu hoa.

ʻOiai loaʻa iā ʻoe ma lalo o hoʻokahi pākēneka manawa e hāpai ai e kahi kāne i loaʻa kahi vasectomy, loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi manawa nui aku ke nui inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kali a hiki i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o kāu hoa e ʻike inā ua holo. Pono e nānā i ka sperm o kāu hoa i ʻekolu mau mahina ma hope o ke kaʻina hana, a pono iā ia e loaʻa i kahi liʻiliʻi o 20 ejaculation. E hōʻoia e hoʻohana i kahi pale ʻē aʻe a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka OK mai kāu kauka ma hope o ʻekolu mau mahina.

Ke hoʻohana nei i kahi IUD.

Loaʻa ka helu kūleʻa o ka IUD i ka 99.7 pakeneka, no laila he mea maʻamau ka hāpai ʻana - akā ʻaʻole hiki ʻole. ʻO kahi ala e hōʻoia ai ʻaʻole ʻoe e pau i ka pākēneka liʻiliʻi o nā hemahema e ʻike i kāu kauka i hoʻokahi mahina ma hope o ka hoʻokomo ʻana o IUD. E hōʻoia i kāu kauka e kau pono ana ka IUD i kāu kōpū. E hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi i kēia: Me nā IUD e pili ana i ka hōmona e like me Mirena, ʻaʻole loaʻa kekahi mau wahine i kā lākou wā. Akā inā ʻoe e ʻike i nā hōʻailona hāpai kuʻuna e like me ka palu o ka umauma, maʻi kakahiaka, a i ʻole ka luhi nui, pono ʻoe e lawe i kahi hōʻike hāpai keiki a kāhea i kāu kauka. Lawe nā hāpai IUD i kahi makaʻu nui o ka hāpai ʻole ʻana a me ka hāpai ʻana ectopic, no laila makemake ʻoe e kamaʻilio koke me kāu kauka.

Ke hoʻohana kūpono ʻole ʻana i ka condom.

ʻAno maʻalahi lākou e hoʻohana, a hey, ua hoʻāʻo mākou iā lākou ma ka maiʻa i ka papa olakino i ka lā. Pehea e hiki ai i kekahi ke hōʻino iā lākou? Eia ka papa inoa pōkole: e hoʻohana ana iā lākou me nā aila hoʻoliʻiliʻi aila, e like me ka ʻaila ʻaila a i ʻole ka aila niu, kahi e hemo ai ka latex; e hoʻohana ana i nā condom i hoʻopau ʻia (ʻae, he lā palena pau lākou) a i ʻole nā ​​mea i hōʻike ʻia i nā mahana wela loa (mai waiho iā lākou i loko o ka mīkina lima o kāu kaʻa i ke anuanu o ka hoʻoilo a i ʻole ka wela o ke kauwela); haehae ʻino ʻole iā lākou me nā niho, ʻokiʻoki, a i ʻole ke kui ke wehe ana i ka ʻeke; ʻaʻole e waiho ana i kahi lumi i ka piko; ʻaʻole huki (me ka condom, ʻoiaʻiʻo) i ka wikiwiki ma hope o ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole paha ia he papa inoa pōkole, ma hope o nā mea āpau.

Ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia infertility a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana iā IVF e hāpai ai.

Ma muli wale nō o kāu loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia infertility, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo he keiki ʻole ʻoe. ʻO ka manaʻo wale ia he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa kāu e hāpai kūlohelohe ... ʻo ia hoʻi aia kahi manawa kūpono.

Wahi a kekahi noiʻi i loko o ka puke pai Ka momona a me ka Sterility, 17 pākēneka o nā wahine i hāpai ma o IVF ma hope ua hāpai kūlohelohe ma hope koke iho. ʻOiai ʻaʻole maopopo loa ka poʻe noiʻi no ke aha e hana ai kēia, ʻōlelo kekahi e hāpai ka hāpai ʻana i ke kino i ka lole a hiki nō hoʻi ke kāohi i nā hopena o nā kūlana e like me ka endometriosis, e ʻae maʻalahi ai ka hapai ʻana. Hoʻohui, aia ke koʻikoʻi pili i ka hāpai ma kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ma muli o ka mea hope loa ia i kou manaʻo a hiki - kahaha! Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe mākaukau no ke kahaha, e mālama pono i nā akaʻi kūpono.

Ke hāpai mua ʻoe.

ʻ,, ʻae, heluhelu pololei ʻoe: hiki iā ʻoe ke hāpai ke hāpai ʻoe. Kapa ʻia ʻo superfetation, a he mea nui loa ia, kākaʻikahi loa. (Ke kamaʻilio maoli nei mākou e pili ana i nā hihia i hoʻopaʻa ʻia he 10 wale nō.) Hana ʻia ia i ka wā e hoʻokuʻu ai kahi wahine hāpai i kahi hua manu i kekahi mau pule i loko o kona hāpai ʻana a laila moe kolohe i ka manawa kūpono (a hewa paha!). He mea kakaikahi loa kēia ʻo ka hapanui o nā wahine, ʻo wau pū kekahi, ʻaʻole ia e mālama iā ia, akā e ʻike mau ʻoe he mea ia.

No laila aia iā ʻoe: ʻehiku mau ala āu hiki e hāpai i ka wā e nānā liʻiliʻi ana iā ia. E makaʻala, akahele, a hoʻohana i kēia ʻike e lilo i kuleana piha no kou olakino hānau.

Noho ʻo Dawn Yanek ma ke kūlanakauhale ʻo Nu Ioka me kāna kāne a me kā lāua mau keiki ʻoluʻolu a pupule hoʻi. Ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i makuahine, he mea hoʻoponopono puke ʻo ia i hōʻike pinepine ʻia ma ke kīwī e kūkākūkā i nā nūhou kaulana, ke ʻano, nā pilina, a me ka moʻomeheu pop. I kēia mau lā, kākau ʻo ia e pili ana i ka ʻaoʻao maoli, relatable, a me ka hana o ka makua ma momsanity.com. ʻO kāna pēpē hou loa ka puke "107 mau mea aʻu e makemake ai e ʻike wau me kaʻu pēpē mua: nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui no nā mahina 3 mua". Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa iā ia ma Facebook, ʻO Twitter a Pinterest.